An underlying, misleading trait.

A huge percentage of relationships are based on jealously and it always makes me wonder why.
why such an emotion we feel? Why does it always have to mean a bad thing?
Ive sat on the sidelines, heard people close to me, people on the streets arguing, over such pitty things. It confuses me. Does feeling this emotion mean your a bad person? How are you actually meant to deal with it?

In a way it shows someone you care about them. when someone stops caring, stops feeling jealous, theres nothing there. no connection. no closeness.
However you feel jealous, it causes arguments, upset and hurt between the people you care for the most. This is what gets me. How are you meant to react to a certain situation without hurting the other person. You want them to know you care, without coming across as prossessive.

Many people dont ever feel this, what can be a very overwhelming emotion. But it allows us to become and be a every day normal human being. We need to feel this way once in our life's to create closeness, to create an odd kind of friendship, but funny enough actually even to start a relationship. even if you dont see it coming or happening to yourself.

I had to write a post about this. There's an increasing rate of abusive relationships or ones that dont always work out to how they seem. I wanted to write about something you readers can relate to. But mostly I wanted just to show you that not always a bad situation has to come out of this emotion. Good things are always round the corner,even if it seems impossible.

Staying postive in life is the key.

As we grow up, we learn that even the one person that wasn't supposed to ever let us down, probably will. You'll have your heart broken and you'll break others' hearts. You'll fight with your best friend or maybe even fall in love with them, and you'll cry because time is flying by.
So take too many pictures, laugh too much, forgive freely, and love like you've never been hurt. Life comes with no guarantees, no time outs, no second chances. you just have to live life to the fullest, tell someone what they mean to you and tell someone off, speak out, dance in the pouring rain, hold someone's hand, comfort a friend, fall asleep watching the sun come up, stay up late, be a flirt, and smile until your face hurts. Don't be afraid to take chances or fall in love and most of all, live in the moment because every second you spend angry or upset is a second of happiness you can never get back.